About Lies and Lying
mini-tutorial in support of lying from
All lies and all truths have an effect.
The vast majority of our lies are unconscious ones; just because
one is unaware of a lie doesn't mean it doesn't have an effect.
Supporting by silence another's unconscious
blaming lie ensures that
they will continue to produce less-than-desirable results—it's
tantamount to thwarting another. i.e. "My ex was abusive."
It's abusive of you to set up another to break
an agreement with you, to thwart you.
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