Eligibility Requirements:

English must be your first language

Do not do the tutorial if you have been working with a counselor or therapist within the past three months. Please wait three months and then register.

Do not do the tutorial if you are an alcoholic, or someone considers you to be an alcoholic—except if you have been alcohol-free for five (5) years in a row. Or, if you have mastered your addiction and can now drink from choice.

Do not do the tutorial if you are living/relating with an alcoholic. This includes socializing with alcoholic friends or parents. The exception being if the other has been alcohol-free for five (5) years in a row.

Do not do the tutorial if you have been in physical (abusive) communication with your spouse and have not attended weekly therapy or counseling sessions for six months in a row of since the last incident. Our Spouse Abuse Tutorial is designed to support anyone intent on completing his/her experience of abusing or being abused.

Do not do the tutorial if you are presently taking any mind/mood altering medication. Wait three months. (sugar, nicotine & caffeine ok)

Do not do the tutorial if you are using illegal drugs. Wait three months. Please don't waste your time and mine trying to get away with this. The tutorial conversations require that you be willing and able to consistently function in the same reality.

Do not do the tutorial if you feel you must reveal the contents of the tutorial to your spouse or partner. If they ask you, "Hey, let me see," You must agree to communicate that you have an agreement to not let anyone read the material and to not talk about the content of the tutorial with anyone you until you've completed the tutorial. If you think/know your spouse/partner would support you in breaking this agreement with the tutorial coach, don't do the tutorial.

Lastly and most importantly:

Do not do the tutorial if you sense that you might start and quit—if you know that you can't be trusted to honor your word.

The tutorial will serve as a catalyst for things to work or things to not work, at an accelerated pace. Breaking agreements is suicidal behavior. Breaking an agreement here will create doubt for the rest of your life. That's how powerful this tutorial is. If you break your agreement to complete the tutorial, then for the rest of your life, when someone breaks an agreement with you, when they communicate abusively with you, you'll never be certain whether or not it was a consequence of your abuse, your broken agreement with the tutorial coach. You will have to clean it up sometime.

Please do not ask why about any of the above.

If you are eligible you may return to the Registration Form