| integrity: As the spouse of a law enforcement officer it's your job to restore/recreate and maintain your integrity. Equally important, the community is trusting you to support the integrity of your spouse. There is one person who knows that you are not being totally honest. It's not that you have lied or stolen or treated others abusively, that's not what integrity is about. It's that you have not acknowledged all of it to any one person, possibly even to yourself. No one knows who you really are. Your mind has hid lots of perpetrations, even from itself. These thoughts withheld, unacknowledged, keep you from experiencing being in-integrity. Others sense it, they read this aura of semi-trustworthiness, your "honest act," on your face. It determines whether or not they relate with you from respect or merely act respectful out of fear. It determines whether people tell you the whole truth, or mirror you and hide just a few things. One value that comes from restoring/recreating your integrity is that thereafter, when someone is thwarting you, you can be absolutely certain it's not a consequences of an unacknowledged perpetration. Return to the Registration Form
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